I think today in American relationships are just a joke. People date around until they "find the right one" (or the one they settle for below par). Of course you have to give it your all in every relationship so you gotta have sex according to societies standards, you have to engage in all of the customary interactions if you are dating, pointless caressing, over the top clinging and of course stupid silly flirtatious personalities.
I think that if you just get busy with your life, focus on self improvement, don't distract yourself with pointless social interactions "oh let's go to a party and get wasted yeah that sounds awesome..." and just do what you are supposed to do you will find all of the right people in the right timing.
You shouldn't have to pursue people, or cater your personality to be silly etc. You will find the true friends when you find people working to the same goal, significant other included. Why waste your time going out of your way and stealing your time for pointless pursuits of a serious relationship. Just wait and you will find the right one and it will require no effort for you to be happy together.
I think that if you just get busy with your life, focus on self improvement, don't distract yourself with pointless social interactions "oh let's go to a party and get wasted yeah that sounds awesome..." and just do what you are supposed to do you will find all of the right people in the right timing.
You shouldn't have to pursue people, or cater your personality to be silly etc. You will find the true friends when you find people working to the same goal, significant other included. Why waste your time going out of your way and stealing your time for pointless pursuits of a serious relationship. Just wait and you will find the right one and it will require no effort for you to be happy together.
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